10 Coffee Date Tips For The First Date

Have you been texting them for a couple of weeks now, or even if you are meeting them for the first time, coffee dates are the best and safe. As they are not that formal or informal. They come in between and come off to be very casual and friendly. But if you are nervous and looking forward to the first date then here are some tips that might save you from embossment and save you.

10 Coffee Date Tips For The First Date

  • Dress to impress

It is always said that the style of dressing should keep up with the occasion. And just because a coffee date is something casual you cant show up in your PJs. Looking presentable is very important. For boys, it can be something simple as a shirt or a t-shirt preferably with denim. And for girls, again a pair of denim or trousers with a cute top and minimal but tidy makeup would just do the job. But whatever you choose to wear make sure you are comfortable in that.

  • The “right day” of the week

It is always important to plan a date on the correct day. Fundamentally it is the day when both of you are free, next it should be a day when you aren’t working. Imagine going on a date on a Monday afternoon, all you can talk is how much you have throughout the  week which can quite piss off the other person, but going on a date on a day like Friday or Saturday would be just great as it is the start of the weekend and you can pull it off being cool.

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  • Keep your phone off

It is very important when you are on a date, especially the first date to completely indulge in the conversation with the person, listen to them as you can know each other very well. Constantly being on phone texting, updating status on social media or taking selfies can annoy a person on a whole new level and it also comes off you to be a careless and insensible person. So, avoid that, even if is an important call just keep your phone aside till the date gets over and then you are free to use it.

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  • Don’t be late

It is your first date, and the worst you could do is be late. Being late on the fifth or something above that can be reasonable, but not on the first date. It is not appreciated if you make someone to wait for the first date, even if your reason is justified and the other person understands, it is just not preferred. Therefore, don’t forget to leave home at least 10 minutes early.

  • Be modest

While talking of oneself, talking unpretentiously is crucial. It doesn’t mean that you have less esteem for a person, it tells that there is so much for a person to know about you, and it all cant be judged in the first date itself. Touching to that, it is important for the person on the date to know just the right information about you, just to be decisive regarding the consequences or result of the date whether they want to see you again or no.

  • Don’t just settle

If you think the person you are on a date is not right, then it is okay. You don’t have to get in a relationship when you think that they aren’t “the one”. It is not necessary that the first meeting between two people would  lead them into a  happy relationship. Sometimes things not working out can enable you attain a great deal of clarity. If you find things skeptical then just don’t settle.

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  • Be decisive

When you are going on a first coffee date being self-decisive is one of the trait people look for, because when you can’t choose anything on the menu and ask the other person to, it gets very awkward and also very uncomfortable. So here’s a tip if you are going to the place for the first time and have no idea what it is like, just look out for the menu online and choose something that you want to order when you get there, there is no harm in checking out the food on the menu online if you are unfamiliar with the food.

  • Focus

Meeting a person for the first time can get a little apprehensive, you might get very conscious of yourself and even the environment. An advice to avoid such an edgy situation id to focus, focus  on the person you are on a date with rather the people. Don’t think too much if people are going to judge you, listen to you. The people around you in a coffee shop can be couples, non-couples, and even first-time date goers just like you. So just be cool and concentrate on the date.

  • Be yourself

Basically, people go on dates to get to know each other, spend some time and figure out if it is worth another date. So it becomes essential to be yourself and also to present yourself in a decent and an honest way. When you go on a date for the first time its okay to be frittered, but this is a coffee date, so just be comfortable, polite and pleasant. If you don’t like it just say it, it’s not always necessary to come out in the most flattering way. Being real is what matters, as it shows the other person who you are.

  • Giving equal chances

When in a first date, don’t let it go like an interview, that is a date should be something casual and light-hearted rather than an interview or a situation where you are getting one-word answers to your question. When you don’t know the person and want to know more about them then, both should get equal chances in leading the conversation. But if you have already spoken with the person then just go with the flow.

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A coffee date is a very easy-going date. They say magical things happen over a coffee. Well!, it is true. Nothing can and should probably go wrong with a first coffee date. The above tips can help with a great deal if it is your first coffee date. Also here is another tip, when it comes to paying the bill, always ALWAYS divide the bill. It is a very noticeable move. And, coffee dates are just the beginning, if it is meant to be it will. Else, there is someone out there for you and you will definitely find them.

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