It is exactly what they say, “Sometimes the person you love is right under your nose, and you just don’t realise it.” I have seen many patch-ups and break-ups throughout my life, and you know what was common in all of them? They all turned to their best friends when in distress.
Let’s accept that we can think of going through a bad breakup, but we cannot think of losing our best friends. They are like the ultimate solace for our troubled hearts. Life is nearly impossible without them. Yet, when it comes to falling in love with our best friend, we are never sure.
What is it that troubles us? If your best friend doesn’t feel the same way, it can make things awkward, and you might end up losing the only “real friendship” you’ve known your whole life. But think how amazing it would be if the feelings were mutual. The Breakup Cafe brings you an interesting and relatable post defining the ultimate question: Can best friends become lovers?
Is it worth the risk? Can best friends become lovers?
Besides being friends, what is even more intricately amazing– a girl and a boy’s complicated “best friendship”! I think there’s not a single person in this world who won’t relate to this. We all, at least once, have faced this confused state of emotional turmoil in our lives, where we didn’t realize when the line of “just friends” was crossed – after that, things got weird.
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Is it OK to Date Your Best Friend?
I don’t know why it’s so difficult for people to accept their best friends as their love interests. Is it insecurity? That we might lose our friendship if anything goes wrong? Or are the bad guys or mysterious girls always attracting us more?
Whatever the reason, it cannot be good enough not to think of your best friend as someone you love. As someone who could take care of you for a lifetime, shouldn’t they be doing that for you already? There’s no one in this world who knows you better than that best friend of yours.
Plus, if you are feeling jealous of them being with someone else, not you, it’s because you are letting that happen. My point is, do not let that happen. If you already know in your heart that you feel something amazing, seize the moment, my friend, and make it yours. For life doesn’t wait. They might not wait either, and you will miss something that could have been utterly magical.
The challenges of dating a best friend
The transition from best friends to romantic partners can come with its own set of challenges. One of the main concerns is the fear of ruining the friendship. If the feelings are not mutual, it can lead to awkwardness and potentially damaging the close bond that existed before.
Another challenge is navigating the boundaries between a romantic relationship and a friendship. Both individuals may struggle to adjust to the changes in the relationship dynamics and it may take time to find a new level of comfort and understanding.
In addition, the added pressure of a romantic relationship may bring up insecurities or past experiences that were not present in the friendship. Despite these challenges, many believe that the strong foundation of a best friendship can lead to a successful and fulfilling romantic relationship.
From Friendship to Romance – Why do Best Friends make the best couples?
Well, there are countless reasons why they would make the best partners in life. It’s hard not to fall for your best friend. They are the ones who protect us and love us despite our flaws, and they are the ones who would do anything to make us happy.
They can look at us and know how we feel. All it takes is one glance. Not everyone has that kind of understanding.
But most importantly, being stupid is allowed. Both of you have been friends for a reason. Both of you are into weird stuff. You like the same things as they do and have always accompanied each other in doing fun stuff.
Hence, a relationship beyond friendship between you two will only be an improved version of your friendship.
You are not shy about them, and it’s not like you have to take time to open up to them. You can say whatever you want, dress up however you want, and just be yourself. There is no awkwardness – and no judgement at all.
How can you stop yourself from falling in love with them?
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The impact on the friendship if the romantic relationship doesn’t work out
The impact of a failed romantic relationship on a friendship can be significant and long-lasting. If two best friends decide to take their relationship to the next level and it doesn’t work out, it can be challenging for them to revert back to just being friends.
The strong emotional bond that once existed between them may be damaged, and feelings of hurt, resentment, and awkwardness may arise. This could lead to difficulties in communication and a strain on the friendship. In some cases, the friendship may not be able to recover and may eventually fade away.
It’s important to consider the potential impact on the friendship before taking the leap into a romantic relationship with a best friend, as the consequences of a failed relationship could be devastating.
The importance of open and honest communication in a romantic relationship with a best friend
Open and honest communication is crucial in any relationship, and especially so in a romantic relationship with a best friend. The foundation of a strong friendship is built on trust, understanding, and the ability to communicate effectively.
When two best friends enter into a romantic relationship, they bring with them a level of familiarity and comfort that can sometimes lead to assumptions and lack of communication. However, it is important to remember that a romantic relationship is different from a friendship, and both partners need to be transparent and vocal about their feelings, needs, and expectations.
Failure to do so can result in misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and ultimately, the end of the relationship. To ensure the success of the relationship, both partners must make an effort to openly communicate their thoughts and feelings, and be willing to listen to each other’s perspective. By fostering an environment of open and honest communication, the relationship can thrive, and the friendship can only strengthen.
Conclusion – Can Best Friends Become Lovers?
Yes! Couples who are best friends share a great deal of happiness with each other through thick and thin!
So my friend, my only suggestion to all the boys and girls who think they are in love with their best friends and are confused about their move. “It is always not right to run after what you love. But sometimes, choosing what’s good for you is wise!”
Furthermore, if you have to choose between two, choose the one who is a better friend because that person will never want to change you in any way to love you. That person already knows every worst side of yours and still chooses to love you!
So, grab them and pour your heart out in front of them. If you are scared of being in love with your best friend and confessing your love to them, as it might ruin your friendship, don’t be! This relationship could change your life, and it’s so much worth any risks.
So to answer the question – Can Best Friends Become Lovers? – know that it can indeed be the best thing you might experience in your lifetime.